I'm not sure what leadership is. Are you? In my quest to find a defintion I have come across some three hundred plus definitions, none of which have been very useful in helping me predict who in a group of teens or college grads will eventually rise to the top. It's easier to look at successful leaders in retrospect and say "Ah, so that's what it takes to be a leader". However, successful leaders come in all shapes, sizes and flavors, so for every "Aha!" moment I have on what a leader is, I h...